An-ger/‘aNGer/Nouna no-no word for women in the south an off-limits emotion for women in the church. emotion a therapist never feels because they are always calm and sereneDespite these cultural definitions of anger for women, Christians,  and therapists, I found myself a year ago venting ferociously in a small group. One of the women in my group finally spoke up and said, “You’re angry.” My heart dropped. I realized she was right.